Aunt Sonia gained some street cred with Kaden and Kennedy by bringing them to see their favorite show, The Thundermans. Kennedy had trouble containing herself as she got the VIP treatment and met her favorite actors.

#1 in Progress

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Hemingway made it through his first three days of radiation without a hitch. He tolerates the anesthesia well and likes to eat immediately after coming to.

#19 in Progress

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#19: Read 10 New Books

Took a minute to get into, but a very good character driven read.

#1 in Progress

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No need to be subtle. Thanks, Auntie Michelle.  Hemingway’s incisions are healing ahead of schedule, so he will begin radiation tomorrow and continue five days a week over the next month. Hopefully the treatment will extend his life long enough to forgive me.

#57 in Progress

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#57: Launch a Basically Me Tee Shirt Line

Getting closer.

#13 in Progress

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#13: Try 10 New LA Restaurants

One of the best patios in LA and maybe the best taco.

#13 in Progress

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#13: Try 10 New LA Restaurants

Tried the new Curtis Stone meat centric restaurant, Gwen. Excellent all the way up until the check.

The News We We’re Hoping For

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Hemingway has a low grade tumor. That means radiation should have about a 90% success rate. We’re ready to get started on January 23rd.

2016, A Year in Review

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Began the year off right in San Miguel de Allende.

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Saw a bunch on concerts. Mumford & Sons, Chase Rice, Peter Cetera, Styx, Sam Hunt, Eric Church, Chris Young, Chris Stapleton, Air Supply, J. Lo, Zac Brown, Lumineers, Flume, Chromio & Stevie Nicks. Pearl Jam in Miami for my birthday was the best.

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Went to a museum or two.

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Ate some great meals.

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Enjoyed the lake house.

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Ate a lot of burgers.

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Spent my birthday in Miami.

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Took in another Stage Coach festival.

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Drank up Napa with friends.

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Celebrated Rosie’s Graduation.

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Spring break in Palm Springs.

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Joined a Supper Club.

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Worked a little.

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Nursed one dog back to health.

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Celebrated my Pa’s 70th in epic fashion.

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Celebrated Brit’s 21st in Vegas.

Paintballed, bowled, spectated and partied with my children.

Supported Brittany’s final season at UCR.

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More beach time with the fam for Georgeanne’s 60th.

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Had a catch with Devin at Dodgers Stadium.

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Watched a game at the Big House.

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Life is Beautiful.

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Another trip to Hawaii.

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Cubs won.

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Anniversary in N’awlins.

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An always perfect Thanksgiving.

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And Christmas.xmas-1

Got bad news, but ready to fight.

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Ended the year in Hemingway’s Key West.

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Lymph nodes and bone marrow came back clean!  As long as the tumor grade comes back under three, Hemingway should be ready for radiation in a couple of weeks.

Finally Got Him Home

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Surgery went about as well as could be expected considering the tumor’s placement. Doctor called it a feisty tumor that will need plenty of radiation to kill the cancer cells left behind. Hopefully he’s a quick healer so that we can take the next steps in a couple of weeks.

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Hemingway woke up strong and ready.

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We got to spend the day with these maniacs.

Diet’s Off

Back to LA

The Official 2017 List

  1. Help Hemingway beat Cancer
  2. Grow LA Fashion Insider
  3. Ring in the New Year
  4. Do something I would never do if not for this blog
  5. Go to a Marquette game
  6. Travel w/an empty suitcase
  7. See a Waterfall
  8. Off roading
  9. Go Snorkeling
  10. Go Waterskiing
  11. Visit Mom’s New Home
  12. Visit an American City we’ve never been to
  13. Try 10 New LA Restaurants
  14. Watch a Rocket Launch
  15. Watch Brittany Graduate
  16. Open up the kitchen
  17. Remodel Master Bathroom
  18. Wipe out 75% of Business Debt
  19. Read 10 New Books
  20. Go to a game at Wrigley
  21. Salsa
  22. Five hikes
  23. Complete North America album
  24. Get the Bronco Running
  25. Colonoscopy
  26. Eat a fish I’ve caught
  27. Enjoy a country drive
  28. Smoke a Cuban
  29. Spend a day at a lake
  30. Go to a baseball stadium I’ve never been to
  31. Sleep in a tent
  32. Draft our wills
  33. Go the road to sell Basically Me
  34. Trace the family name back another generation
  35. Small town festival
  36. Eye Exam
  37. Watch a sunrise
  38. Watch a sunset
  39. Star Gaze
  40. Nap in a hammock
  41. Buy a pair of Berluti’s
  42. Lounge by 5 hotel pools
  43. Attend a music festival
  44. Three Beaches
  45. Walk across a bridge
  46. Finish a Writing Project
  47. See 10 New Movies in the Theater
  48. Visit something ancient
  49. New workout
  50. Train Ride
  51. Kayak
  52. See a band in Preservation Hall
  53. Have a picnic
  54. Out of State Concert
  55. Stay at Chateau Marmont
  56. Don’t eat out for two straight weeks
  57. Launch a new business
  58. Have a drink in a bar over 200 years old
  59. Commission a Pear Jam/MU Concert poster from 92’
  60. Eat at a top 100 restaurant
  61. Visit a National Park
  62. Visit a Museum
  63. Bike ride in another city
  64. Jet Ski
  65. Explore a winery
  66. Aurora Borealis
  67. Set my watch to 6 different time zones
  68. Make the most of a layover
  69. Go to a drive-in movie
  70. A photography project
  71. See a Broadway Show
  72. Buy a new suit
  73. Have a Catch
  74. Go to a professional sport match I’ve never been to
  75. “Publish” a mezcal cocktail book
  76. Launch new LA Fashion Insider, Inc. website
  77. Eat a NY Hot Dog
  78. Five rooftop toasts
  79. Garage Sale
  80. Landscape the curbside
  81. Art for the dining room wall
  82. Rain 2
  83. Remove a tattoo
  84. Get my teeth whitened
  85. Remove the fire place in the den
  86. No Alcohol for two weeks (3 times)
  87. Go to the mountains
  88. Double Online Retail Sales
  89. Add at least 25 new quotes to The Tragic Muse
  90. Full Physical
  91. Host a Summer Party
  92. Helicopter Ride
  93. Palm Springs
  94. Go to a Giants Game
  95. New Dining Room Table
  96. Less Clothes
  97. Weigh 175
  98. Weigh 170
  99. Weigh 165
  100. Complete Dad’s 70th Video

#26 Done

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@26: Eat a fish I’ve caught

We probably caught about 40 fish. The Keys are for real.

#3 Done

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Happy New Year From gay ol’ Key West.

The 2017 List

#3 Ring in the New Year

To be continued….

The Final Tally

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I look forward to bidding 2016 adieu with two middle fingers blazing. Not my favorite year. I write this on a beach chair overlooking the warm Atlantic in the beautiful keys. This is one of the reasons that this blog is so important to me. Not only does it motivate me to live life to the fullest, it gives me perspective and reminds me that perhaps I should keep my middle fingers in my pocket tonight and count my lucky stars.  But Glen Frey is dead and Hemingway has cancer, so maybe one middle finger.

As for the final tally, I completed 55% of this years goals. Not the best completion rate over the last eight years, but not the worst either. I’ll post the highlights in the next week or so.

    1. Grow LA Fashion Insider, Inc.
    2. Ring in the New Year
    3. Do something I would never do
    4. Write one true sentence each month
    5. Go to a Marquette Game
    6. Travel with an empty suitcase
    7. See a waterfall
    8. Off Roading
    9. Go Snorkeling
    10. Try all of LA’s Most Iconic Burgers
    11. Camp with Mom
    12. Visit an American city I’ve never been to
    13. Try 10 New LA Restaurants
    14. Pearl Jam
    15. Try 6 downtown coffee houses
    16. Open up the kitchen
    17. Remodel Master Bathroom
    18. Wipe out 2015 Business debt
    19. Read 10 New Books
    20. Return to Salsa Lessons
    21. Celebrate my Dad’s 70th
    22. Paddle Board
    23. Hike to the wisdom tree
    24. Lose 25 pounds
    25. Perfect my signature
    26. Eat a fish I catch
    27. Sell the Bronco
    28. Design a sport coat
    29. Spend a day at a lake
    30. Go to a baseball stadium I’ve never been to
    31. Senior Night
    32. Draft our wills
    33. Go on the road and sell Basically Me
    34. A better shoe closet
    35. Small Town Festival
    36. Better Insurance
    37. Watch a sunrise
    38. Watch a sunset
    39. Star Gaze
    40. Nap in a Hammock
    41. Plant a lime tree
    42. Lounge by 5 hotel pools
    43. Attend a music festival
    44. Three Beaches
    45. Walk across a bridge
    46. Celebrate Brittany’s 21st
    47. See 10 New Movies in a Theatre
    48. Visit something ancient
    49. New Workout
    50. Train ride
    51. Kayak
    52. Five hometown photo galleries
    53. Have a picnic
    54. Out of State Concert
    55. Stay at Chateau Marmont
    56. Don’t eat out for two weeks
    57. Take Devin to a Giants game
    58. Have a drink in a bar over 200 years
    59. Commission a ’92 Peral Jam Concert Poster
    60. Eat at a top 100 restaurant
    61. Complete 2015 Italy Album
    62. Visit a National Park
    63. Go to a game at the Big House with Dad
    64. Visit a museum
    65. Migrate year one of the blog to this site’s archives
    66. Bike ride in a mother city
    67. Jet Ski
    68. Visit a winery
    69. Auroura Borealis
    70. Set my watch to six different time zones
    71. Make the most of a layover
    72. Go to a outdoor movie
    73. No red meat for a month
    74. See a Broadway show
    75. But a new suit
    76. Write one leaf
    77. Go to a Marquette Game
    78. Explore a new Nawlins Neighborhood
    79. Have a Catch
    80. Do not buy a watch
    81. Go to a professional sporting match I’ve never been to
    82. Publish a Mezcal Cocktail Book
    83. Launch a new LA Fashion Insider, Inc. website
    84. Get a tattoo
    85. Go to at least three work shows
    86. Eat a NY hotdog
    87. Five Rooftop Toasts
    88. Restructure/negotiate all monthly bills
    89. Garage Sale
    90. Lanscape the curbside
    91. Host a pool party
    92. TSee five local bands
    93. Take a picture with my family at the highest point of that location
    94. Watch Brittany play a game out of state
    95. Art for the dining room wall
    96. Rain 2
    97. Turn my office back into a guest room
    98. Remove a tattoo
    99. Get my teeth whitened
    100. No beer or hard liquor for two months
    101. Remove the fire place in the den

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Spent the afternoon at Hemingway’s favorite spot, Sloppy Joe’s, aka Captain Tony’s. Made sure to get my boy’s dollar stapled to one of the posts.

#35 Done

#35: A Small Town Festival

Being that my Hemingway is half dachshund, it’s only fitting we take in the Weiner Winter land Festival in Key West.

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#70 Fails

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#70: Set my watch to six time zones

My favorite and most difficult goal will not happen in 2016.

Where I’ve been:

Pacific Time Zone: Home, San Francisco, Palm Springs,  Napa, San Miguel de Allende & Las Vegas.

Hawaii-Aleutian Time Zone: Honolulu, Oahu & Lanai, Oahu.

Central Time: Dallas

Eastern Time: New Orleans, Miami & Key West

 

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#66 Done

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#66: Bike Ride in Another City

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Lobster Benedict at Blue Heaven.

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The Southern Most Point in the USA

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Trying to fight off the cold with some vitamins and hydration.

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The Conch Republic Day One

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Paradise Found

#4 & #76 Done

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#4: “Write one true sentence” Each Month

#76: Write one leaf (page).

Completed both writing goals this year. Some of the sentences will find their way on a t-shirt line we’re launching with Basically Me.

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The fight begins today. CT scan results were normal, so good news there. We won’t know the grade of the tumor until after his surgery, so the game plan is a little up in the air. Surgery is January 9th.

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Tryptophan

Merry Christmas

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Supper Club Holiday Dinner

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Pups are happy to have their sleeping partner back.

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A tough day after learning the lump is indeed cancer. Hemingway has a mast cell tumor and being that it is the holidays, an appointment with the recommended oncologist won’t happen for a couple of weeks. The number one goal for 2017 writes itself.

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I found a growth on Hemingway’s leg and let him know last night we had to go to the vet. Both dogs understood what that meant. Hemingway was scared to death. Brittany filmed Rio after we left. I’ve never heard her howl like this.

Stevie Nicks

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67 years old and still rocking’ the Forum.

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Another great miniseries.

#7 Done

#7: See a waterfall

LA Zoo Lights. Man made, but it’s still a waterfall.

Sparkling in Basically Me

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#61 Done

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#61: Complete 2015 Italy album

Looking for Fake Snow

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#56 Done

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#56: Don’t eat out for two straight weeks

With the help of a meal delivery service, I finally accomplished something I haven’t been able to do in the last five years. Lost a few pounds as well.

#36 Done

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#36: Better Insurance.

I can finally walk around without the fear of getting mugged. Well, except for the mugging part.

#47

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The third movie we have seen in a row that ends without a resolution, but I guess that’s the point. Nevertheless, I’m a big Michael Shannon fan and liked it.

#5 Not Happening

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#5: Go to a Marquette Game

After giving up 93 points to Wisconsin today, I don’t think I’m up for watching defenseless basketball.

#88 Done. The Purge.

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#88: Have a Garage Sale

I’d pay to have this junk taken away, so a good day.

#79 Done

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#79: Don’t buy a new watch.

Didn’t buy any of the above. What a responsible adult I am. Hope to be less responsible in 2017.