Practicing for #59. It’s not a seven course meal, but a good first step. Broiled garlic shrimp on a bed of Angel Hair Pasta with Asparagus. Despite my lack of cooking talent, it wasn’t half bad.

Brittany’s trip was a success.  Despite the challenging logistics, everything went as planned. Among the highlights, Brittany witnessed the 44th Presidential Inauguration in the bitter cold, visited the Smithsonian, The Air and Space Museum, Library of Congress, Lincoln Memorial, Capitol Building, National Mall, Arlington Cemetery and Mount Vernon.  From there she traveled by bus to New York City where she toured Central Park, Time’s Square, The Metropolitan Museum, Ellis Island and saw the Broadway production, The Phantom of the Opera (her favorite).  Although she didn’t exactly fulfil my photography requests, she did manage to take a few which I have posted online.  Click the above photo to give them a look.

Well this is a blow.  How do we make lemonade from this rotten batch of lemons?  While I know that I’m not alone in wishing there was a way to take your place, I also know that none of us could fight this bitch of a disease as bravely and valiantly as you did and will do again.  Despite my own sadness and fear, I find comfort in knowing that you are at your finest when challenged, and unbeatable when that challenge threatens your family.  You will prevail.

#54 Complete.  Well, that was fun.  Because Brittany is in New York and Devin had the day off from school, we really didn’t need to get up today.  Not only that, it was raining.  So, after we loaded up on some pancakes, we returned home and spent the day in bed watching television and playing scrabble.   So much fun I think I’ll add it to next year’s list.

#20 in progress.  Two down, three to go.  Click the photo to read.

#5 in progress. Despite the fact that fewer and fewer movies are being made from original material, I continue to write original material.  I am currently one-third of the way through my latest “masterpiece”.

If a word in the dictionary were misspelled, how would we know?

Steven Wright

Plans Regarding #27

As a screenwriter, I’m embarassed to say that I haven’t seen twenty percent of the movies on AFI’s top 100 movies of all time.  Those of which I have not seen are marked in bold.  Because Brando is one of my favorite actors, I’m going to start with a Streetcar Named Desire.

Update: Did it.

  1. Citizen Kane (1941)
  2. The Godfather (1972)
  3. Casablanca (1942)
  4. Raging Bull (1980)
  5. Singin’ in the Rain (1952)
  6. Gone with the Wind (1939)
  7. Lawrence of Arabia (1962)
  8. Schindler’s List (1993)
  9. Vertigo (1958)
  10. The Wizard of Oz (1939)
  11. City Lights (1931)
  12. The Searchers (1956)
  13. Star Wars (1977)
  14. Psycho (1960)
  15. 2001: A Space Odyssey (1968)
  16. Sunset Blvd. (1950)
  17. The Graduate (1967)
  18. The General (1927)
  19. On the Waterfront (1954)
  20. It’s a Wonderful Life (1946)
  21. Chinatown (1974)
  22. Some Like It Hot (1959)
  23. The Grapes of Wrath (1940)
  24. E.T. The Extra-Terrestrial (1982)
  25. To Kill A Mockingbird (1962)
  26. Mr. Smith Goes to Washington (1939)
  27. High Noon (1952)
  28. All About Eve (1950)
  29. Double Indemnity (1944)
  30. Apocalypse Now (1979)
  31. The Maltese Falcon (1941)
  32. The Godfather Part II (1974)
  33. One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest (1975)
  34. Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs (1937)
  35. Annie Hall (1977)
  36. The Bridge on the River Kwai (1957)
  37. The Best Years of Our Lives (1946)
  38. The Treasure of the Sierra Madre (1948)
  39. Dr. Strangelove (1964)
  40. The Sound of Music (1965)
  41. King Kong (1933)
  42. Bonnie and Clyde (1967)
  43. Midnight Cowboy (1969)
  44. The Philadelphia Sotry (1940)
  45. Shane (1953)
  46. It Happened One Night (1934)
  47. A Streetcar Named Desire (1951)
  48. Rear Window (1954)
  49. Intolerance (1916)
  50. The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring (2001)
  51. West Side Story (1961)
  52. Taxi Driver (1976)
  53. The Deer Hunter (1978)
  54. M*a*s*h (1970)
  55. North By Northwest (1959)
  56. Jaws (1977)
  57. Rocky (1976)
  58. The Gold Rush (1925)
  59. Nashville (1975)
  60. Duck Soup (1933)
  61. Sullivan’s Travels (1958)
  62. American Graffiti (1973)
  63. Cabaret (1972)
  64. Network (1976)
  65. The African Queen (1951)
  66. Raiders of the Lost Ark (1981)
  67. Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf? (1966)
  68. Unforgiven (1992)
  69. Tootsie (1982)
  70. A Clockwork Orange (1971)
  71. Saving Private Ryan (1998)
  72. The Shawshank Redemption (1994)
  73. Butch Caddidy and the Sundance Kid (1969)
  74. The Silence of the Lambs (1991)
  75. In the Heat of the Night (1967)
  76. Forrest Gump (1994)
  77. All the President’s Men (1976)
  78. Modern Times (1936)
  79. The Wild Bunch (1969)
  80. The Apartment (1960)
  81. Spartacus (1960)
  82. Sunrise (1927)
  83. Titanic (1997)
  84. Easy Rider (1969)
  85. A Night at the Opera (1935)
  86. Platoon (1986)
  87. 12 Angry Men (1957)
  88. Bringing Up Baby (1938)
  89. The Sixth Sense (1999)
  90. Swing Time (1936)
  91. Sophie’s Choice (1982)
  92. Goodfellas (1990)
  93. The French Connection (1971)
  94. Pulp Fiction (1994)
  95. The Last Picture Show (1971)
  96. Do the Right Thing (1989)
  97. Blade Runner (1982)
  98. Yankee Doodle Dandy (1942)
  99. Toy Story (1991)
  100. Ben-Hur (1959)

Like me, Brittany ran away from the camera so she is not on the broadcast.  However, one of her roommates (Maya) is.  Anyway, she arrived safely and will be in the National Mall on Tuesday morning for the inauguration.

Still not taking #25 seriously.

The Six Grands

Another blog for y’all to bookmark.  A place for all of us to keep track of our grand kids, nieces and nephews.

The Six Grands

We’re sending the liitle girl off to D.C for a week to witness history.  I have to admit that I’m proud of us for being able to make such a special trip possible. And for the record, Brittany will be accomplishing #32 (Phantom of the Opera) and #46 (Ellis Island) before I do.  Good for her.

Although winning our softball league is not on the list, it is definitely a goal of mine.  After finally winning the regular season in December (six years in the making), we entered the playoffs as major underdogs.  As the best team in the C league, we were “rewarded” by playing the second best team in the A league. On paper we should have lost, but as they day, games aren’t won on paper. Despite yours truly making two crucial errors in the sixth inning, we managed to hold onto a 37-30 win.  Hopefully we can keep it going next week.  Regardless, it’s been a blast playing with my brother and Devin.  And thanks to Dad for coming out and cheering us on.

#98 in progress.  Sundance Film Festival starts tomorrow and I will once again not be attending.  Despite always wanting to, I forgot to put it on this year’s list so excuses trump action.  However, I will make it the first addition to next year’s list.

Debt, n.  An ingenious substitute for the chain and whip of the slavedriver.  ~Ambrose Bierce, The Devil’s Dictionary, 1911

#7 in progress.  We currently hold seven rediculously taxing credit cards that even  a New Jersey Bookie would find unreasonable.  These cards are reminders of our past stupidity.  2008 actually marked the first year as a couple that we paid off more debt than we aquired.  Despite our addiction to Katsuya Sushi, we knocked out two small cards and a rather large tab at Wilshire Home Entertainment.  The goal this year is to eliminate at least one large card from our debt pool, and more importantly, acquire zero additional debt.

Dreams pass into the reality of action. From the actions stems the dream again; and this interdependence produces the highest form of living.

Anais Nin

I did a little research today regarding #97.  This is probably the one goal on my list that I have the least control over.  Nevertheless, we’re going to give it the ol’ college try and start applying for some shows.  So far we have decided on Deal or No Deal, Are You Smarter than a 5th Grader?, Wheel of Fortune, Trivial Pursuit; America Plays, The Amazing Race and Game Show In My Head.  However, seeing how these are mostly big network shows, we’ll have to be extremely lucky to get on.  Maybe there are some more obscure game shows on cable that we should be looking at.  Anyone know of any?

The best part about my 100 goal list are the things that are not on it.  Specifically, time with the kids.  And nothing takes up more of our free time than Brit’s soccer.  But, truth be told, there is nothing I’d rather be doing.

#71 COMPLETE.  We dined with a few friends at Koi in Hollywood last night.  Sonia and I have wanted to try it since moving to LA ten years ago.  The Zen/Hollywood design was impressive and made for a great ambiance.  The food is very similar to our favorite restaurant, Katsuya, only more expensive.  We had the Crispy Rice with Spicy Tuna, Baked Crab Handroll, Spicy Crunchy Yellowtail Tartare, Spicy Seared Albacore with Crispy Onions, Yellowtail Shashimi and Glazed Green Beans. Overall, big thumbs up.

LAFashionInsider

#8 (In Progress).  We officially started our business in February of last year so we can’t calculate growth or decline until the end of next month.  However, we are doing everything we can to realize the potential of this business in a down economy.  For starters, I did a little spring cleaning on the company website.  Comments or suggestions are always welcomed.

LAFashionInsider

Had a not so subtle reminder today why #15 is a priority.  Softball?  Felt pretty hard to me.

THOUGHTS ABOUT #2: TRY A 100 POINT WIN.

WINEI know wine ratings by pompous twits such as Robert Parker are a bit absurd, but I thought it would be fun to sip a “perfect” wine nonetheless.  Unfortuantely it will not be as easy I thought.  I guess perfection is hard to come by.  Even if a restaurant were to miraculously carry a 100 point wine, there ain’t no way in Dixie they’re pouring it by the glass.  I did manage to track down a Sloan 2002 Cabernet from Napa Valley, but it was a tad expensive.  About $1400 more than I wanted to spend.  And from what I’ve learned, that’s about the average cost of a Wine Spectator, Wine Enthusiast or Wine Advocate 100 point wine.  But here’s the thing, it’s on my list and I won’t fail to accomplish a single goal.  So if you have any advice, be sure to shoot it my way.

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

Mark Twain

Thoughts on #100

Although I’m not exactly sure what “art” is, I knew that I wanted to include it on my list.  Not only am I a graduate of liberal arts, but I am also pursuing a profession in the “arts”.  With that said, I don’t particularly buy into the art and artist world. There are many people who view writing as an art.  However, I have never heard a good writer refer to himself or one of his peers as an artist.  Instead, these writers believe as I do in that writing is a craft.  No one is a born writer.  You have to first learn how to speak, then write, then writer better.  It’s a process.  The question is, is painting any different?  Or acting?  Or playing an instrument?  Isn’t everything learned and practiced?  Sure, one may take to writing or painting or composing more than another, but it takes real work and practice to “master” it.  No one shoots out of womb with a masterpiece.  Mozart was a talented SOB.  He was writing music at six and composing concertos at eleven.  Yes, he was talented, but mostly he was just committed.  In fact, those early concertos were mostly written by his father and were essentially rearrangements of more accomplished composers.   In fact, most experts agree that Mozart’s earliest masterwork (No. 9, K. 271) was not composed until he was twenty-one.  It is said that it took him ten thousand hours of practice/work to produce this masterpiece.   Ten thousand hours is a significant amount of time as it is the magic number that most experts believe it takes someone to master a particular “talent”.  So, while the 27 concertos are impressive, what I truly admire about Mozart is that he was able to log ten thousand hours of practice/work by the age of twenty-one.   I for one have yet to log those kind of hours and I’m thirty-five years old.  Then again, I’m no Mozart. After all, the one piece of art I was recently compelled to buy was a limited edition movie poster print of, The Shining.  What can I say, I love me some Jack.

The Shining

#22 (in progress).  These are the five “Top 100” classic novels of all time that I have chosen to read this year.  In case the covers are not clear, I will read; The Big Sleep by Raymond Chandler, The Tropic of Cancer by Henry Miller, Money by Martin Amis, Slaughter-House-Five by Kurt Vonnegut, and Rabbit, Run by John Updike.  There is no better way to become a better writer than to read better writers.  I have asked my dad to read along with me so that I can bounce my Gen X thoughts off of his baby boomer ones.  Despite the assumed lack of interest, I will offer my thoughts at the end of each reading.

Saw The Wrestler.  Very good movie.  May be too “indy” and raw for most, but the acting was phenomenal.  Three down, seven to go on #23 of my list.

#20: One down, four to go. Click pic to read.

For the record. #25 in progress.

Enjoyed breakfast at the Coral Tree Cafe.  Eggs Benedict on olive bread with turkey breast.  One down, eleven to go on #24 of my list.

Another good one.  Two dark for most of the people I know.  Spoke to me in many ways.  Leo and Kate were amazing.  Two down and eight to go to complete #23 on my list.

Good movie.  Not the best acting from his supporting cast, but Clint was at his vintage best.  One down, nine more to go to complete #23 on the list.

Happy New Year? Goal #1 Completed

new yearsFirst post of the year and I’m already faced with a major dilemma; to bullshit or not to bullshit.  I suppose that since this blog is mostly for myself, I should be as honest as possible. So with that said, I must admit that this New Year’s Eve was pretty much a downer.  But before I piss all over it, I should first point out the good news – I managed to knock out one of my one hundred goals; kiss Sonia at midnight on January 1st, 2009.  As for the rest of the night, it pretty much sucked.  We began the evening at one of our local watering holes, Senior Freds. Despite the owner’s investment of kazoos and party hats, the bar was never at more than half of its capacity.    Even worse, the half that showed up were about as interesting as a box of hair.  Nevertheless, Sonia and I rang in the new year with a glass of champagne and a kiss.  With the night still young, we decided to attend a house party in Sherman Oaks.  With over two hundred guests in attendance, great food, an open bar and loud music, it was a party certainly worthy of ringing in the new year.  Unfortunately, Sonia and I found the festivities impossible to enjoy due to the fact that our son, Devin was spending the night at his friend’s house despite being forbidden to do so.  Ah, the joys of parenthood…..  So, instead of beginning the new year with visions of joy and wonderment, we began with thoughts of torture.  Happy New Year!

And it begins…

buddhaWelcome to my new blog, “Kenwood’s Playlist: living vicariously through myself”.  It is in this little corner of the world wide web that I will chronicle my daily pursuit of happiness, a journey that I have only just recently begun.  After thirty four years of hitting my head against the proverbial wall, I have finally begun to understand what Forrest Gump realized from the get go, happiness is perception.  In other words, you can complain because roses have thorns, or you can rejoice because thorns have roses.  Although I haven’t perfected this approach to life just yet, a confluence of recent life events have made me realize that it is how I perceive each life situation that will dictate my happiness and level of success.  That said, a leopard can’t change it’s stripes.  I am not all of the sudden going to become a Tony Robbins clone.  I actually enjoy the darkness at times.  In fact, I think it’s what enables most of us to see the light.  I’m just going to try to be a little more aware and present on a daily basis.  And while I will do my best to make lemonade if life presents me lemons, I’m still bound to partake in a little road rage or sulking in my bed.  Carl Jung said “There are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year’s course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word ‘happy’ would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness."  I certainly expect my life to be balanced in this regard, but hopefully this little experiment will help me see more roses and less thorns.  So rather than wait for life to come to me I intend to be a bit more proactive in the aspects of my life that I have relative control over, most importantly my time.  As you have probably noticed on the side bar of this blog, I’ve compiled a list of one hundred things I’d like to accomplish in 2009.  It’s like a Bucket List (things to do before you kick the bucket), but with more accountability.  Afterall, with a bucket list you can’t technically fail until you die.  So, rather than procrastinate, I choose to hold myself accountable and live my best life now, day by day, year by year.  Not unlike my "365 day project” on Flickr, this blog/diary will not only motivate me to act on my “to-do” list, but it will also force me to put the results of my day, good or bad, in perspective.  I might crash and burn, but I’m excited to excelerate the ride that Sonia and I vowed to take a little less than a year ago.

Welcome

And it begins…
Welcome to my new blog, “Kenwood’s Playlist: living vicariously through myself”. It is in this little corner of the world wide web that I will chronicle my daily pursuit of happiness, a journey that I have only just recently begun. After thirty four years of hitting my head against the proverbial wall, I have finally begun to understand what Forrest Gump realized from the get go, happiness is perception. In other words, you can complain because roses have thorns, or you can rejoice because thorns have roses. Although I haven’t perfected this approach to life just yet, a confluence of recent life events have made me realize that it is how I perceive each life situation that will dictate my happiness and level of success. That said, a leopard can’t change it’s stripes. I am not all of the sudden going to become a Tony Robbins clone. I actually enjoy the darkness at times. In fact, I think it’s what enables most of us to see the light. I’m just going to try to be a little more aware and present on a daily basis. And while I will do my best to make lemonade if life presents me lemons, I’m still bound to partake in a little road rage or sulking in my bed. Carl Jung said “There are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year’s course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word ‘happy’ would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.” I certainly expect my life to be balanced in this regard, but hopefully this little experiment will help me see more roses and less thorns. So rather than wait for life to come to me I intend to be a bit more proactive in the aspects of my life that I have relative control over, most importantly my time. As you have probably noticed on the side bar of this blog, I’ve compiled a list of one hundred things I’d like to accomplish in 2009. It’s like a Bucket List (things to do before you kick the bucket), but with more accountability. Afterall, with a bucket list you can’t technically fail until you die. So, rather than procrastinate, I choose to hold myself accountable and live my best life now, day by day, year by year. Not unlike my “365 day project” on Flickr, this blog/diary will not only motivate me to act on my “to-do” list, but it will also force me to put the results of my day, good or bad, in perspective. I might crash and burn, but I’m excited to excelerate the ride that Sonia and I vowed to take a little less than a year ago.