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Pizza for breakfast, sunbathing for lunch. A perfect SoCal day.

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We went to  the wedding of one of Brit’s college teammates. Another example of life moving too fast.

#19 in Progress

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#19: Read 10 New Books

Behind every great marriage is a psychopath.  Anti-climatic ending, though.

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Celebrating the Bday of Rosie and the Twins.

Happy 11th Birthday!

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#57 Done

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#57: Launch a Basically Me Tee Shirt Line

Took our first orders on the new collection.

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Our Supper Club didn’t provide enough food, so… Chili dogs in Hollywood.

#1 in Progress

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1/3 of the way through his radiation treatments. Still not used to the cone.

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Good day to be a Marquette fan.

#19 in Progress

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#19: Read 10 New Books.

A profound and unsentimental look at dying.


Rained all day, but no complaints. Thanks for the wine, Pac. Paired perfectly with Sonia’s chili.


Aunt Sonia gained some street cred with Kaden and Kennedy by bringing them to see their favorite show, The Thundermans. Kennedy had trouble containing herself as she got the VIP treatment and met her favorite actors.

#1 in Progress

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Hemingway made it through his first three days of radiation without a hitch. He tolerates the anesthesia well and likes to eat immediately after coming to.

#19 in Progress

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#19: Read 10 New Books

Took a minute to get into, but a very good character driven read.

#1 in Progress

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No need to be subtle. Thanks, Auntie Michelle.  Hemingway’s incisions are healing ahead of schedule, so he will begin radiation tomorrow and continue five days a week over the next month. Hopefully the treatment will extend his life long enough to forgive me.

#57 in Progress

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#57: Launch a Basically Me Tee Shirt Line

Getting closer.

#13 in Progress

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#13: Try 10 New LA Restaurants

One of the best patios in LA and maybe the best taco.

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#13: Try 10 New LA Restaurants

Tried the new Curtis Stone meat centric restaurant, Gwen. Excellent all the way up until the check.

The News We We’re Hoping For

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Hemingway has a low grade tumor. That means radiation should have about a 90% success rate. We’re ready to get started on January 23rd.

2016, A Year in Review

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Began the year off right in San Miguel de Allende.

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Saw a bunch on concerts. Mumford & Sons, Chase Rice, Peter Cetera, Styx, Sam Hunt, Eric Church, Chris Young, Chris Stapleton, Air Supply, J. Lo, Zac Brown, Lumineers, Flume, Chromio & Stevie Nicks. Pearl Jam in Miami for my birthday was the best.

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Went to a museum or two.

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Ate some great meals.

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Enjoyed the lake house.

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Ate a lot of burgers.

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Spent my birthday in Miami.

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Took in another Stage Coach festival.

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Drank up Napa with friends.

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Celebrated Rosie’s Graduation.

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Spring break in Palm Springs.

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Joined a Supper Club.

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Worked a little.

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Nursed one dog back to health.

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Celebrated my Pa’s 70th in epic fashion.

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Celebrated Brit’s 21st in Vegas.

Paintballed, bowled, spectated and partied with my children.

Supported Brittany’s final season at UCR.

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More beach time with the fam for Georgeanne’s 60th.

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Had a catch with Devin at Dodgers Stadium.

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Watched a game at the Big House.

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Life is Beautiful.

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Another trip to Hawaii.

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Cubs won.

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Anniversary in N’awlins.

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An always perfect Thanksgiving.

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And Christmas.xmas-1

Got bad news, but ready to fight.

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Ended the year in Hemingway’s Key West.

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Lymph nodes and bone marrow came back clean!  As long as the tumor grade comes back under three, Hemingway should be ready for radiation in a couple of weeks.

Finally Got Him Home

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Surgery went about as well as could be expected considering the tumor’s placement. Doctor called it a feisty tumor that will need plenty of radiation to kill the cancer cells left behind. Hopefully he’s a quick healer so that we can take the next steps in a couple of weeks.

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Hemingway woke up strong and ready.

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We got to spend the day with these maniacs.

Diet’s Off

Back to LA

The Official 2017 List

  1. Help Hemingway beat Cancer
  2. Grow LA Fashion Insider
  3. Ring in the New Year
  4. Do something I would never do if not for this blog
  5. Go to a Marquette game
  6. Travel w/an empty suitcase
  7. See a Waterfall
  8. Off roading
  9. Go Snorkeling
  10. Go Waterskiing
  11. Visit Mom’s New Home
  12. Visit an American City we’ve never been to
  13. Try 10 New LA Restaurants
  14. Watch a Rocket Launch
  15. Watch Brittany Graduate
  16. Open up the kitchen
  17. Remodel Master Bathroom
  18. Wipe out 75% of Business Debt
  19. Read 10 New Books
  20. Go to a game at Wrigley
  21. Salsa
  22. Five hikes
  23. Complete North America album
  24. Get the Bronco Running
  25. Colonoscopy
  26. Eat a fish I’ve caught
  27. Enjoy a country drive
  28. Smoke a Cuban
  29. Spend a day at a lake
  30. Go to a baseball stadium I’ve never been to
  31. Sleep in a tent
  32. Draft our wills
  33. Go the road to sell Basically Me
  34. Trace the family name back another generation
  35. Small town festival
  36. Eye Exam
  37. Watch a sunrise
  38. Watch a sunset
  39. Star Gaze
  40. Nap in a hammock
  41. Buy a pair of Berluti’s
  42. Lounge by 5 hotel pools
  43. Attend a music festival
  44. Three Beaches
  45. Walk across a bridge
  46. Finish a Writing Project
  47. See 10 New Movies in the Theater
  48. Visit something ancient
  49. New workout
  50. Train Ride
  51. Kayak
  52. See a band in Preservation Hall
  53. Have a picnic
  54. Out of State Concert
  55. Stay at Chateau Marmont
  56. Don’t eat out for two straight weeks
  57. Launch a new business
  58. Have a drink in a bar over 200 years old
  59. Commission a Pear Jam/MU Concert poster from 92’
  60. Eat at a top 100 restaurant
  61. Visit a National Park
  62. Visit a Museum
  63. Bike ride in another city
  64. Jet Ski
  65. Explore a winery
  66. Aurora Borealis
  67. Set my watch to 6 different time zones
  68. Make the most of a layover
  69. Go to a drive-in movie
  70. A photography project
  71. See a Broadway Show
  72. Buy a new suit
  73. Have a Catch
  74. Go to a professional sport match I’ve never been to
  75. “Publish” a mezcal cocktail book
  76. Launch new LA Fashion Insider, Inc. website
  77. Eat a NY Hot Dog
  78. Five rooftop toasts
  79. Garage Sale
  80. Landscape the curbside
  81. Art for the dining room wall
  82. Rain 2
  83. Remove a tattoo
  84. Get my teeth whitened
  85. Remove the fire place in the den
  86. No Alcohol for two weeks (3 times)
  87. Go to the mountains
  88. Double Online Retail Sales
  89. Add at least 25 new quotes to The Tragic Muse
  90. Full Physical
  91. Host a Summer Party
  92. Helicopter Ride
  93. Palm Springs
  94. Go to a Giants Game
  95. New Dining Room Table
  96. Less Clothes
  97. Weigh 175
  98. Weigh 170
  99. Weigh 165
  100. Complete Dad’s 70th Video

#26 Done

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@26: Eat a fish I’ve caught

We probably caught about 40 fish. The Keys are for real.

#3 Done

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Happy New Year From gay ol’ Key West.