Posted on January 31, 2009

Spent the evening celebrating the birthday of my baby sister, Rosie, and niece and nephew, Kaden and Kennedy. My little sister is such a warm and caring person. She carries her grandmother’s name as no one else could. As for the twins, they certainly gave the impression that the terrible twos are behind them. While Sean and Kim ate dinner as if their heads were on swivels, Kaden and Kennedy acted as though they were well aware of the boundaries. Rosie is 15. The twins are 3. Time flies. Overall, it was a wonderful night with family.
Posted on January 30, 2009
I’m sick of following my dreams. I’m just going to ask them where they’re goin’, and hook up with them later.
Posted on January 28, 2009

While I have yet to take the perfect picture (#73), I wanted to share my “perfect” picture of 2008. It was taken in our hotel room in New Orleans before heading out to Burbon Street. Rather than take an obvious photo of us in the mirror, I was able to use my iphone as a prop and take a more editorial type photograph. It’s the perfect snapshot of a perfect New Orleans’ weekend. Perfect pictures just sort of happen. Hopefully it will happen again soon.
Posted on January 28, 2009

Happy Birthday to my Niece and Nephew! You’ve come a long way in three years.
Posted on January 28, 2009

If I were to itemize my time spent, writing and family would compete for the number one and two spots. As for number three… Marquette Basketball. In between listening or watching every game of the season, I help run MUScoop.com, an “insiders” basketball message forum. Although I die a small death with every loss, there are few pleasures outside of family that come close to my affiliation with the Marquette Warriors. And while there is plenty of basketball yet to be played, Marquette is treating me to another fine season. They are currently 17-2 overall, but more impressively, 7-0 in the toughest conference in college basketball. I already have goosebumps in anticipation of Friday’s game with Georgetown.
Posted on January 27, 2009

Practicing for #59. It’s not a seven course meal, but a good first step. Broiled garlic shrimp on a bed of Angel Hair Pasta with Asparagus. Despite my lack of cooking talent, it wasn’t half bad.
Posted on January 25, 2009

Brittany’s trip was a success. Despite the challenging logistics, everything went as planned. Among the highlights, Brittany witnessed the 44th Presidential Inauguration in the bitter cold, visited the Smithsonian, The Air and Space Museum, Library of Congress, Lincoln Memorial, Capitol Building, National Mall, Arlington Cemetery and Mount Vernon. From there she traveled by bus to New York City where she toured Central Park, Time’s Square, The Metropolitan Museum, Ellis Island and saw the Broadway production, The Phantom of the Opera (her favorite). Although she didn’t exactly fulfil my photography requests, she did manage to take a few which I have posted online. Click the above photo to give them a look.
Posted on January 25, 2009

Well this is a blow. How do we make lemonade from this rotten batch of lemons? While I know that I’m not alone in wishing there was a way to take your place, I also know that none of us could fight this bitch of a disease as bravely and valiantly as you did and will do again. Despite my own sadness and fear, I find comfort in knowing that you are at your finest when challenged, and unbeatable when that challenge threatens your family. You will prevail.
Posted on January 24, 2009

#54 Complete. Well, that was fun. Because Brittany is in New York and Devin had the day off from school, we really didn’t need to get up today. Not only that, it was raining. So, after we loaded up on some pancakes, we returned home and spent the day in bed watching television and playing scrabble. So much fun I think I’ll add it to next year’s list.
Posted on January 21, 2009

#5 in progress. Despite the fact that fewer and fewer movies are being made from original material, I continue to write original material. I am currently one-third of the way through my latest “masterpiece”.
Posted on January 20, 2009
If a word in the dictionary were misspelled, how would we know?
Posted on January 20, 2009
As a screenwriter, I’m embarassed to say that I haven’t seen twenty percent of the movies on AFI’s top 100 movies of all time. Those of which I have not seen are marked in bold. Because Brando is one of my favorite actors, I’m going to start with a Streetcar Named Desire.
Update: Did it.
Posted on January 20, 2009
Like me, Brittany ran away from the camera so she is not on the broadcast. However, one of her roommates (Maya) is. Anyway, she arrived safely and will be in the National Mall on Tuesday morning for the inauguration.
Posted on January 18, 2009
Another blog for y’all to bookmark. A place for all of us to keep track of our grand kids, nieces and nephews.
Posted on January 17, 2009

We’re sending the liitle girl off to D.C for a week to witness history. I have to admit that I’m proud of us for being able to make such a special trip possible. And for the record, Brittany will be accomplishing #32 (Phantom of the Opera) and #46 (Ellis Island) before I do. Good for her.
Posted on January 16, 2009

Although winning our softball league is not on the list, it is definitely a goal of mine. After finally winning the regular season in December (six years in the making), we entered the playoffs as major underdogs. As the best team in the C league, we were “rewarded” by playing the second best team in the A league. On paper we should have lost, but as they day, games aren’t won on paper. Despite yours truly making two crucial errors in the sixth inning, we managed to hold onto a 37-30 win. Hopefully we can keep it going next week. Regardless, it’s been a blast playing with my brother and Devin. And thanks to Dad for coming out and cheering us on.
Posted on January 15, 2009

#98 in progress. Sundance Film Festival starts tomorrow and I will once again not be attending. Despite always wanting to, I forgot to put it on this year’s list so excuses trump action. However, I will make it the first addition to next year’s list.
Posted on January 14, 2009

Debt, n. An ingenious substitute for the chain and whip of the slavedriver. ~Ambrose Bierce, The Devil’s Dictionary, 1911
#7 in progress. We currently hold seven rediculously taxing credit cards that even a New Jersey Bookie would find unreasonable. These cards are reminders of our past stupidity. 2008 actually marked the first year as a couple that we paid off more debt than we aquired. Despite our addiction to Katsuya Sushi, we knocked out two small cards and a rather large tab at Wilshire Home Entertainment. The goal this year is to eliminate at least one large card from our debt pool, and more importantly, acquire zero additional debt.
Posted on January 14, 2009
Dreams pass into the reality of action. From the actions stems the dream again; and this interdependence produces the highest form of living.
Posted on January 13, 2009

I did a little research today regarding #97. This is probably the one goal on my list that I have the least control over. Nevertheless, we’re going to give it the ol’ college try and start applying for some shows. So far we have decided on Deal or No Deal, Are You Smarter than a 5th Grader?, Wheel of Fortune, Trivial Pursuit; America Plays, The Amazing Race and Game Show In My Head. However, seeing how these are mostly big network shows, we’ll have to be extremely lucky to get on. Maybe there are some more obscure game shows on cable that we should be looking at. Anyone know of any?
Posted on January 11, 2009

The best part about my 100 goal list are the things that are not on it. Specifically, time with the kids. And nothing takes up more of our free time than Brit’s soccer. But, truth be told, there is nothing I’d rather be doing.
Posted on January 10, 2009

#71 COMPLETE. We dined with a few friends at Koi in Hollywood last night. Sonia and I have wanted to try it since moving to LA ten years ago. The Zen/Hollywood design was impressive and made for a great ambiance. The food is very similar to our favorite restaurant, Katsuya, only more expensive. We had the Crispy Rice with Spicy Tuna, Baked Crab Handroll, Spicy Crunchy Yellowtail Tartare, Spicy Seared Albacore with Crispy Onions, Yellowtail Shashimi and Glazed Green Beans. Overall, big thumbs up.
Posted on January 10, 2009
#8 (In Progress). We officially started our business in February of last year so we can’t calculate growth or decline until the end of next month. However, we are doing everything we can to realize the potential of this business in a down economy. For starters, I did a little spring cleaning on the company website. Comments or suggestions are always welcomed.
Posted on January 9, 2009

Had a not so subtle reminder today why #15 is a priority. Softball? Felt pretty hard to me.
Posted on January 8, 2009
I know wine ratings by pompous twits such as Robert Parker are a bit absurd, but I thought it would be fun to sip a “perfect” wine nonetheless. Unfortuantely it will not be as easy I thought. I guess perfection is hard to come by. Even if a restaurant were to miraculously carry a 100 point wine, there ain’t no way in Dixie they’re pouring it by the glass. I did manage to track down a Sloan 2002 Cabernet from Napa Valley, but it was a tad expensive. About $1400 more than I wanted to spend. And from what I’ve learned, that’s about the average cost of a Wine Spectator, Wine Enthusiast or Wine Advocate 100 point wine. But here’s the thing, it’s on my list and I won’t fail to accomplish a single goal. So if you have any advice, be sure to shoot it my way.
Posted on January 7, 2009
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
Posted on January 7, 2009
Although I’m not exactly sure what “art” is, I knew that I wanted to include it on my list. Not only am I a graduate of liberal arts, but I am also pursuing a profession in the “arts”. With that said, I don’t particularly buy into the art and artist world. There are many people who view writing as an art. However, I have never heard a good writer refer to himself or one of his peers as an artist. Instead, these writers believe as I do in that writing is a craft. No one is a born writer. You have to first learn how to speak, then write, then writer better. It’s a process. The question is, is painting any different? Or acting? Or playing an instrument? Isn’t everything learned and practiced? Sure, one may take to writing or painting or composing more than another, but it takes real work and practice to “master” it. No one shoots out of womb with a masterpiece. Mozart was a talented SOB. He was writing music at six and composing concertos at eleven. Yes, he was talented, but mostly he was just committed. In fact, those early concertos were mostly written by his father and were essentially rearrangements of more accomplished composers. In fact, most experts agree that Mozart’s earliest masterwork (No. 9, K. 271) was not composed until he was twenty-one. It is said that it took him ten thousand hours of practice/work to produce this masterpiece. Ten thousand hours is a significant amount of time as it is the magic number that most experts believe it takes someone to master a particular “talent”. So, while the 27 concertos are impressive, what I truly admire about Mozart is that he was able to log ten thousand hours of practice/work by the age of twenty-one. I for one have yet to log those kind of hours and I’m thirty-five years old. Then again, I’m no Mozart. After all, the one piece of art I was recently compelled to buy was a limited edition movie poster print of, The Shining. What can I say, I love me some Jack.


Posted on January 6, 2009

#22 (in progress). These are the five “Top 100” classic novels of all time that I have chosen to read this year. In case the covers are not clear, I will read; The Big Sleep by Raymond Chandler, The Tropic of Cancer by Henry Miller, Money by Martin Amis, Slaughter-House-Five by Kurt Vonnegut, and Rabbit, Run by John Updike. There is no better way to become a better writer than to read better writers. I have asked my dad to read along with me so that I can bounce my Gen X thoughts off of his baby boomer ones. Despite the assumed lack of interest, I will offer my thoughts at the end of each reading.
Posted on January 5, 2009

Saw The Wrestler. Very good movie. May be too “indy” and raw for most, but the acting was phenomenal. Three down, seven to go on #23 of my list.
Posted on January 3, 2009

Enjoyed breakfast at the Coral Tree Cafe. Eggs Benedict on olive bread with turkey breast. One down, eleven to go on #24 of my list.
Posted on January 3, 2009

Another good one. Two dark for most of the people I know. Spoke to me in many ways. Leo and Kate were amazing. Two down and eight to go to complete #23 on my list.
Posted on January 2, 2009

Good movie. Not the best acting from his supporting cast, but Clint was at his vintage best. One down, nine more to go to complete #23 on the list.
Posted on January 1, 2009
First post of the year and I’m already faced with a major dilemma; to bullshit or not to bullshit. I suppose that since this blog is mostly for myself, I should be as honest as possible. So with that said, I must admit that this New Year’s Eve was pretty much a downer. But before I piss all over it, I should first point out the good news – I managed to knock out one of my one hundred goals; kiss Sonia at midnight on January 1st, 2009. As for the rest of the night, it pretty much sucked. We began the evening at one of our local watering holes, Senior Freds. Despite the owner’s investment of kazoos and party hats, the bar was never at more than half of its capacity. Even worse, the half that showed up were about as interesting as a box of hair. Nevertheless, Sonia and I rang in the new year with a glass of champagne and a kiss. With the night still young, we decided to attend a house party in Sherman Oaks. With over two hundred guests in attendance, great food, an open bar and loud music, it was a party certainly worthy of ringing in the new year. Unfortunately, Sonia and I found the festivities impossible to enjoy due to the fact that our son, Devin was spending the night at his friend’s house despite being forbidden to do so. Ah, the joys of parenthood….. So, instead of beginning the new year with visions of joy and wonderment, we began with thoughts of torture. Happy New Year!